umm.. OK, maybe let's not talk about whether there's friendship
in the first place.
When we pigeon-holed someone as a colleague, neighbour, etc, our
guard is naturally down due to familarity & social
patterns.
So, if they are behaving more than what they are supposed to be in
their roles, take a step back. Manitain a wider barrier. (Which I
think you are doing now)
Another thing that is common amoung the three guy is that they do
not want to know you on a deeper level. They have in-turn
pigeon-holed you as such and such based on their preception and
stops there.
Furthermore you may not have corrected them on the spot when they
start their funny business on you.
And base on this preception, you are :
1)Emotional Crutch
2)Flower Pot
3)Lamp Chop
I hate guy#2 more. They pretend to be buddies and touches the
ladies all over. Cad.
Guy#3, just aviod meeting him totally. Nothing but sex on his
mind.
Guy#1, still OK lah. Out of sight, out of mind. Just know what you
want.
Do you want to change their preception? Are they worth it?
It's really up to you.
